15 May 2012

Intuition, a bridge from here to there

In this article: Often the only bridge between where we are we where we want to be is an intuition. But unlike a feeling, an intuition is a feeling of knowing. In other words it's a feeling disguised as knowing and easily confused with actually knowing.

Making the shift from employee to independent professional or consultant is challenging. And commonly the most difficult task lies in deciding what it is that we would like to do, what specific and branded value we are going to create and for whom -- a question of personal and business identity.

I meet people who are frustrated because they want nothing more than to start a business doing something they love and are passionate about, but they don't know how to start -- leading to doubt, frustration, repressed anger and self-judgement.

It’s easy to ask them, 'so what is it that you would really like to do?', and almost without hesitation they reply, 'I really want to ....’

But digging into that only exposes underlying tension and confusion -- Why?

An intuition by nature feels full, but when we try to verbalise it, it become frustratingly empty, devoid of any real detail that can be used to take steps or make plans.

The best way to work with intuition lies in recognising that however full and robust it may seem, it's actually a feeling, and not a cognitive idea or coherent narrative. As such intuitions need to be explored, developed and verbalised.

Coaching, journaling, video and audio logging, blogging, research and experimentation are all useful tools for developing intuition.

It may take months even years of 'work' to fully develop an intuition, but once that's been done we can get to the task of making that shift and building a business -- a business meeting a real and necessary need to create and share value, and not just make money and pay the bills.

3 comments:

  1. Dear Paul
    What you write is what i preach as well with my whole life.Very few want to get free really, because if they really do they are free already they cant wait for the morning to come and exited to live, in the middle are those who are deceiving themselves , and most simply don't even get what is this all about. Stop talking about bread, give me it, -they say- just give me better job !

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  2. I wish i could meet you one day and tell you interesting story of my research , i did practically something in the same field you are in .

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  3. Hey Costa. Sure, we are all at different places, with different personalities and narratives and at differing levels of maturity. I believe this is why getting clear about the psycho and demo-graphics of ones target audience is important. Would love to hear your story. You should stop in at Hong Kong sometime and you can tell me.

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